How to Seduce Girls
Learning how
to seduce girls is critical to improving your love life. You will be
very lonely if you do not learn how to seduce women.
Pre Seduction
Before even talking to the girl, make sure you have a few very
important fundamentals taken care of.
- You
should be clean. Even if you are going for the 'grungy'
look, you still need to be clean. That's means take a shower buddy!
- You
should have clean, white (or near white) teeth. Having
yellow teeth and bad breath is a big no-no when picking up, attracting
and seducing women.
- Get
a decent haircut (not a $5 dollar cut from a student
hairdresser)
- You
need to wear clothes that categorize you into a 'sexy stereotype'.
Examples are the rocker/surfer/preppy look. This way, the girls you are
flirting with will associate you with those kinds of people. Obvious
stereotypes to avoid are the computer nerd/regular look (the
guys who just wear jeans and a hoody)
- Get
some great shoes. It's not always the first thing a girl
looks at, but decent shoes complete the package.
It's really important to get these fundamentals down before you start
chatting up girls.
Why?
It makes everything so much easier. Girls will start chatting you up
and flirting with you without you having to initiate the conversation.
How to Seduce Girls
Now
that we've gotten the 'pre seduction' stuff out of the way, let get
into the nitty gritty of actually chatting up and seducing the women
we're talking to.
- Do
not wait for the perfect moment. You need to actually
talk to the girl you want to seduce. Well Duh! Currently you are
reading an article on the internet about how to seduce girls. If this
is the 100th page you've read then you are in a bad place. The best way
to learn how to seduce girls is to actually go out and try to attract
and pick them up.
If just keep reading information on the internet, chances are, some
other seducer will already be dating her by the time you actually make
a move.
- Do
not but her a drink.
Girls want and respect guys who have high standards. Trying to buy a
girl's affection with alcohol is totally transparent. Even if you buy
everyone drinks all the time, it will appear to the girl you are trying
to hook up with that you
are just another guy who wants to buy her a drink. Do not
be that guy.
- Do
not chase her. If you are constantly on the phone to her
trying to get her to hang out and are always jumping at every chance
you have to hang out with her, then you are always available. Do not be
available to her every whim. Live your life
independently of her. Think about it. What do you value
you more? The girl who wants to hang out every second of every day or
the chick who is only available sometimes.
- Do
have other girls in your life. Having other girls in your
life that want to hang out/hook up with you makes you appear more
attractive
to women. This is something called social proof (something that pick up
artists/PUAs use all the time). In short it means, that if everyone
else already wants something (ie you), then more people will want it.
Just don't brag to other people about girls you are seeing. Be discreet.
- Have
fun and don't be too serious. When guys do eventually get
an opportunity to start flirting with a girl they like, they go into
'serious mode'. Do
not go into 'serious mode'! It is bores girls. Just act
like you would if you were hanging out with one of you friends. Tease,
banter and joke around.
- Understand
that she doesn't want to be seen as a slut. Make sure you
are discreet. Girls do not want other people (guys and girls) to think
they are sluts. They have reputations to uphold, so if you are trying
to hook up with and seduce girls, remember that she doesn't want
everyone finding out about it.
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