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Good Conversation Starters
Why choosing a great conversation
starter is
important
What should I say?
When choosing good conversation
starters for a date or even when you are going out just to pick up
girls
or meet guys, there are a few crucial points to keep in mind.
- Good conversation starters always involve
topics that are engaging, topics that both men and women want to give
their opinion on.
- Great conversation starters are always open
ended. To be specific, they do not get one word answers from people. An
example of a closed ended conversation starter is, "What's the time?"
An example of an open ended conversation starter is, "What's worse?
Spilling your drink on yourself or spilling your drink on your date?"
- You may have heard that first impressions
matter most. This is completely true. That's why preparing a good
opening line ahead of time is important. It helps to take some of the
pressure off you when meeting new people (as you're not thinking, "What
should I say?").
- While it is important to have a great
conversation starter to guarantee that your interactions go well, it is
a bad idea to rely on it as your only way to talk to people. Having
other various topics to talk about is just as important.
- Using the same conversation starter for every
interaction is okay but it can get boring and make you a one trick pony.
Conversation Starters to Avoid
The ia a simple rule to remember (especially when it comes to dating):
Be
interesting and avoid boring or contentious (religion, politics, etc.)
topics
So this means you need to avoid
boring topics, which are basically anything that is overly logical as
well as any topics that often bring out a negative reaction in people.
Specific topics to avoid when choosing a good conversation starter are:
-Religion
-Politics
-The weather
-Current economic climate
-Foreign Policy
-TOPICS THAT OTHERS KNOW LITTLE ABOUT
Obviously there are exceptions, but more often than not, these topics
lead to boring, dull conversations that don't allow people to see how
interesting you really are.
Good Conversation Starters to use
right now!
This first one is obvious (and has many simple variations), but most
people are polite and want to meet others. On
top of this most
people are far more worried about what you think of
them than what they think of you.
1. Hey guys, I'm
[insert your name].
2. Hey guys, did you see who won [insert
latest local sporting event]?
3. Hey guys, I have to ask you
something, what is up with [insert celebrity such as
Jennifer Aniston]. How
many people has he/she been dating in the last year?
4. Hey guys, this party/event is
great, how do all know each other?
5. Hey
guys, i have to get your opinion on something [Then ask a
qustion about something relevent to the person/group, so if they are
younger it can be something about a celebrity and if they are a little
older then it can be about something such as a local scandal].
Just remember that having a great conversation starter is only one
piece of the puzzle. It's important to move away from it if you can see
that it's boring people.
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